The views and opinions in this video are that of my own. This is my story and some people may not like or agree with some of the things that I say in this video.
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@deejames1st3 years agoWhen you said: “Why are we doing business with people that disrespect us?” It really resonated with me. 466
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@Carlyon1003 years agoTalk about a black man being conditioned to co-sign his own disrespect by people who don't see us 57
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@1960genius3 years agoI decided 20+ years ago that I would NOT do business with people that don't respect Us! I don't do it. Not for nothing. They don't have anything that I need. I'm so sorry you experienced this. Sending you a cyber hug! ...202
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@freespirited71633 years agoSad. It was a black guy beating the hell out of this lady in front of me, we were at the light. She managed to get her daughter out the car i pulled over and told her to get in. This dude was getting out of the car to come over to mines. Another man of another color pulled over he seen what had happened to. He said yo mama you good. That coward jumped back in that car so fast!! I keep telling women some of these things you are calling men, are the seed's of Satan... ...119
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@KiKiCarr3 years agoDefinitely take this matter to court .. it’s about the principle 53
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@makeathriftfullnoise44053 years agoWhat I LOVE about you is that you do not click bait, and you get straight to the point. Thank you! 135
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@tylynn2563 years agoIt sounds like he was in grown folks business, while sitting at the kiddie table. 77
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@teagan18963 years agoThat's why I don't patronize them for anything. Sorry, not sorry. 103
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@deandrakixx13 years agoSorry that you went through this. And you're right, there's a number of them that don't respect us black women at all. That's why my black ass NEVER marched or protested for them. And if I see them being harassed or handcuffed by cops, I'm gonna keep it pushing. ...130
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@themoneywoman23813 years agoWhen I get disrespected by a business, I keep calm, go to Google and do a review. I don’t return to the business. I hit them in their pockets, where it counts. 16
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@nora_jean28003 years agoI bet they wouldn't have acted like that if ur husband was with u. It's really sad, but sometimes men think they can do us any kinda way when we don't have a male covering. I'm sorry u had to deal with that. Keep ya head up Queen! ...109
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@glowingbutterfly73753 years agoSorry you had to deal with that. Sending you love. It’s hurtful how black men are so easy to disrespect us. 147
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@sweetneecy3 years agoI have heard it be said many times. Everyone sees how unprotected the women and girls are in our community which gives lead way for other races of men to mimick the disrespect. I hate that this happened to you. I've been through it as well. ...363
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@lvncsr61663 years agoYou are so very fortunate to have a husband who will 'see him this week.' It's sad but true, there are times when we need the protection of a husband and if the "bro" were near, he would be in serious trouble if your husband were to find him. Stay calm, cool, and a lady:) ...66
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@goodthewizard3 years agoI see the hurt in your eyes. I’m sorry this had to happen to you when you were in right. All skin folk ain’t kinfolk. A lot of black men need to GROW UP! That BabyBoy syndrome is prevalent in our community and played out! 228
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@theteespotofficial3 years agoThe fact that you're making this video speaks volumes... 26
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@tylynn2563 years agoI can't stop staring at your beautiful skin Eva!!!!! 31
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@rhondaclark65063 years agoNo worries Eva. Most of us as black women aren’t running the same circles as these men anyway. 37
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@debrabelton31613 years agoI'm so sorry you went through this. Unfortunately, I've also had similar experiences from men close to me. Black women are always front and center when it comes to social injustices but there is no covering for us. People are literally becoming wealthy just on YouTube with the venom spewed against us. Black men will never be fully respected in this country until they provide a covering for their women and children. We need to do better. ...213
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@reneehenderson61343 years agoI remember when our men started losing their socially responsible minds in the 1970s. The morass has reached a critical festering boil. Your experience certainly caused a few of my old wounds to reopen. It's so bad that even the women seem to have given up on decorum, politeness, and awareness of who we are, where we are, and what we're dealing with. I do remember when this was not our story as a people. I'm praying we find our way 'back to the garden' and sensibility. ...43
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@kyerastewart56983 years agoI completely understand your point of view. This is why we need to stop making them billionaires and they don’t respect us. We need to wear our own hair. We do need to stick together always. Keep being the positive person you are! Love ya girl! ...50
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@vasa954193 years agoEva, I am SO sorry that you had this experience. I’m also sorry that so many of us know EXACTLY what you are talking about. Thanks for sharing. Keep shining, Queen. 👑 💖👑💖👑 60
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@Teetee-kp3ph3 years agoI am disgusted for you, and I’m not a black woman. Nevertheless, I’ve witnessed exactly what you’re speaking about, I’ve just never felt it was appropriate for me to speak about it given that I’m not part of the community. Love to you today. I’m sorry this happened to you. ...222
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@lslife5423 years ago"I am Eva Monroe!" Whew I got chills! I'm so sorry you experienced this and want you to know that you are someone I truly look up to! You handled that with such elegance and just wow- That is so commendable! xoxo ...87
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@gd87403 years agoHe shouldn’t have opened his mouth. “Like one who grabs a stray dog by the ears is someone who rushes into a quarrel not their own.” Proverbs 26:17 Short it means Mind your own business man! 28
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@sweetneecy3 years agoI am HERE❗ Sitting front row ❤ Ms Eva! Your FEELINGS are VALID. WE APPRECIATE YOU. 48
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@jackym34563 years agoNo he did not. For some reason I felt that coming. I know exactly what you mean because that happens to a lot of us. For some stupid reason some people think by gathering with the other side makes them feel better. Uplifting the other side for some stupid reason makes them more likable. It makes you angry and at the same time sad to see how stupid some people are. I am sorry that happened to you.❤️ ...55
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@brandygee99543 years agoSo sorry to hear this Eva. I am glad however that you have a husband to go down there for you. I just wish that he was with you when all of this happened. 68
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@zephyrmajor56183 years agoI love this video. My only pet peeve is the word, "We" as in "We gotta do better." Nope, "they" need to do better. It's Black men. No need to spare their feelings, they don't care about ours. ...210
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@Lolad8173 years agoWhen I learned to stop worshipping black men and burned my cape, my expectation lowered and I became less disappointed by them. I don't expect anything from them and I don't give anything to them🤷🏿♀️. They don't deserve it. ...13
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@Tamiko29163 years agoEva, I’m so proud that you resisted tearing the black offender down further because clearly from his actions, his intelligence and pride are at an all-time low. 70
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@simplytracy3 years agoI am sorry that you had this horrible experience. That Black man sounded like a drug addict trying to please the jeweler so that he could beg him for money or something. I am not sure but it sounds like he was willing to use you to please that man for his own personal gain.💜👑 ...55
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@kristenpotter71003 years agoI’m so sorry this happened to you, that they both did that. Not ok. You handled yourself much better than I would’ve. 71
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@Aunty_Becky3 years agoThey don’t. We need to learn to start loving ourselves and teach the younger women how to love themselves. 26
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@MyssKymm.3 years agoOMG! Even in the midst of your anger… You remain a class act. 👍💛 I’m SO sorry you experienced that situation and I hope you’re feeling more calm in this moment. I can totally relate to why you feel as you so. You’re message will surely inspire ANYONE, male or female, who is with an open mind. The most we can do is… Pray for our people. Stay beautiful Eva! Much Respect 😘♥️ ...39
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@patriciabrown85313 years agoYou are 100% right. You have every right to be angry. Grace and patience is always better. 💯 18
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@jenkinsbelle3 years agoSo, he just comes in and inserts himself into business that doesn’t even concern him…and what was gained? Behavior like that is an embarrassment to the black community! I’m so sorry you had to experience this Eva. You’re so graceful and poised and it sounds like you handled yourself very well in spite of the Tom foolery you endured. ...25
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@michelee.8413 years agoYou look great, don't worry. You have something important to say! 30
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@lyn9303 years agoSorry this was your experience, Eva. I know it's not the first time this has happened to a woman of color and unfortunately, it will not be the last. You conducted to yourself in such a stately way. Pray on this and the victory will be yours. Blessings! ...32
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@mieishascott21743 years agoI appreciate you sharing this with us. It is very well spoken. May the black men please wake up! 36
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@theone59923 years agoJust today 2 sitting in the only seats in a waiting room. Not one offered a chair while I’m standing in heels. Damn Shame! 16
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@Aariesmom3 years agoYou handled it well but sometimes we get tired of being treated this way by our own and others. I felt this in my soul. 17
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@margaretw58483 years agoAmen! Because I have seen this type behavior in similarly owned shops, I don’t business with them. They think because they spend a few coins with them they are buddies. No, he considers brothers like him as suckers. 15
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@rebeccamercer62083 years agoI retired 35 yrs from my state's prison system working with male inmates. Every race, shape, education level etc., etc., etc. has a root problem of respecting women in general. So, as upsetting as this was for you....it doesn't surprise me one bit! I don't feel MOST men are raised to respect women. Now that's not everybody, there are still a few good men! ...22
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@olamarie58163 years agoI watch a number of female content creators on you tube covering a number of topics and sometimes the reality of the things black women ie womansphere, women who’ve “divested” say, can get to be very overwhelming and have you out here like a chihuahua barking at black men when they display the very behavior you mentioned in this video, AND WORSE. I come to your channel, Angela Marshalles and a few others to detach from this type of conversation, to wind down & have fun! It saddens me that not even HERE that we as black women can escape the ignorance of these cowardly men who live in submission and chose to tap dance for those who would set up shop in our neighborhood, take our money and beat our asses a soon as they felt like we stepped outta line! I’m sorry you had to experience that but I guess anytime we as women are out here trying to learn grow and live our best life A N****A gotta come along, snap his fingers in our face to break the spell lol. Love your channel and please keep us updated🤗 ...32
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@nicolesj193 years agoFacts and that Asian man could give 2 cents about the black guy. The Asians don't like us. They want the money that we spend with them. I stopped getting my nails and toes done because of the treatment I received. I learned to do my own because I refused to give them any money. We always seem to treat our people wrong, and it's heartbreaking that you had to experience that type of treatment. ...8
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@lovelyrose27413 years agoShort answer? NO! I realized that many years ago. And to add injury to insult it's NOT because of attitude, hair, weight, economic status, single-motherhood, ect, ect...it's simply because -- she's Blk. If you were a non-blk woman he would have remained silent, but a blk woman? Blk men have to let the world know; she ain't..... I would most guarantee as soon as you left he had some disparaging words to say about you to that guy. Been there done that. I learned long ago and the hard way. Stop looking at blk men like that's your people, kin-folks or tribe....uh uh...that died and they killed it because that woman is Blk. They have a deeper sense of self-loathing and anti-blk mindsets in comparison to blk women. ...8
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@proverb3103 years agoI am so sorry to hear that you had to experience this, unfortunately there are some black men who behave this way because they follow that BRO code to the pits of hell. The thing is, they better not try it with another race of women because those men will defend their women. Some black men will not even admit that he did anything wrong, he was just standing up for his main man. That NB man could care less about him and if it comes down to it, he will eventually show it. If your husband was there, you would not have gone through that experience, (Ole shuck and jive would not have said one word.) Cowardliness and ignorance tend to run together. We do have some good black men, I have one and two sons, my dad and uncles do not behave this way. I know a bum a mile away because I am surrounded by good black men, who do not disrespect women especially black women. I am glad that you did not give him the satisfaction of responding to him. Enjoy the rest of your week Eva, sending you positive energy.🧡🧡💛 ...32
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@PrincessJasmineWorld3 years agoMrs. Eva, I have resonated with so many of your recent videos. I've been a subscriber for A WHILE and because my mom is not the type to be on social media, I find that you two are very much alike. I value my mom so much in ways that inspire me on the daily... and that's exactly why I love watching you and your content-not just on your fragrance reccomendations, but your commentary. Such wisdom- that is clearly being washed out and even degraded in the waves and flow of main stream culture today. Smh. It takes a great amount of integrity, self-control, and confidence to not just walk the walk...but to share on YouTube and teach the talk.♥️ ...10
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@scrubbingoffinternet52213 years agoWhew Lord! I swear the order of importance for SOME of our tribe of men is 1. Non-Black men (because they live vicariously through them) />2. Black men (his image) 3. Non black women ( because he idolizes #1. 4. Black women ( their last priority) The informal culture towards Black women/people is a sign or disrespect as well. In Korean culture there are 7 levels of respect in how you talk to people but they speak to ANY Black person informally. We have no global respect because our men refuse to build a black nation and run it well and refuse to give even an iota of respect to their women. When they speak of black power they really want black male supremacy. I'm over the whole community and the foolishness. ...8
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@melrose7953 years agoSo sorry about that..First of all, Mr. Jeweler shot himself in the foot..What part of customer service does he not understand, not to mention treating humankind appropriately..You hurt others, it comes right back on you..Mr. "my Dude" had no home training apparently.. ...32
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@mstbleu23733 years agoDiva, you handled it all. Critical thinking was not the brother's intelligence or integrity, it wasn't his business to offer any verbiage....PERIOD...you left as you began with grace and respect 👏👏👏👏 and entitled with a GRACIOUS PASS served, I'm 😤😤😤 I'ma tomboy so my gracious wudve ended when he started talking nonsense 😉 ...60
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@suzique73023 years agoThank you Eva for attaching words to an all too familiar situation. With STYLE and GRACE 💁🏽♀️ 10
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@vickiewalker14103 years agoI'm so sorry this happened to you and it brought tears to my eyes because this happens too often. I love that you continued in the essence of class....Take Care Eva... 6
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@olliejohnson54783 years agoAbsolutely Eva Monroe it’s sicking and degrading that some very few don’t know when to check a person disrespecting a black woman. That was ridiculous I can say you handled it well. But GIRL I got work to do cause I don’t know if I would have been that cool. I’m not Married but he would of had it . Thanks for showing the right way in a difficult situation that’s like that ALL THE TIME. THANKS! Sorry you were so disrespected!🌹 ...15
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@enmodelife3 years agoYou're so pretty without the "beat and brows", Eva ❤ 7
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@distance36953 years agoYou are so right, there is a problem and big disconnect. Other races do not down their women the way black men do in front of other folks and its embarrassing. 2
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@terrycaldwell66293 years agoSo sorry to hear that. You are 100% percent correct in your frustration. I hate it when people do (that customer/ idiot). Thank you for this video because this happens all the time. 10
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@juanitaoneal60203 years agoI really feel your heart. I'm glad you still handled the matter and yourself very well. For this man to come in and jump into your business, was absolutely disrespectful in so many ways. From what you are saying, this brother probably disrespect the woman he was with. This is why some men do not get the respect they deserve or desire from black women. I agree with you, let's just do better. We as black people already get looked down on from other races, so why do it to each other!!! LORD we need you. ...5
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@homehere98173 years agoLove that u shared this with us!! I'm sure many of us can relate. 1
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@rowenajonesr51293 years agoEVA Thank You so much for speaking out on this topic. I soo agree with you. 1
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@victoriousspirit89553 years agoI totally understand how you feel. I refuse to patronize a business that doesn’t treat me well or provide the best service! I refuse! I would go to small claims court just for principle! 12
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@spiritualpoet40033 years agoBaby don't take it personal!This was to make you aware so you can be used by God to send an important message to the weak minded and to others that may be tested!I'm sorry you went through it,but I'm happy too because it produced a great message!😊It was also a test,and you passed because you didn't snap lol. You got the message and passed it on.Thats how God works!Good Job! ...25
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@tinacampbell28103 years agoI am sitting here alone right now waiting for the sheriffs to deliver a protection order against my two sons who have disrespected me and threatened me 46
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@ivyteacherwilson3 years agoI felt every emotion when you were recounting this event! It feels horrible every time we are talked to disrespectfully. Thank you for sharing this story. 2
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@thewrightjeans3 years agoSounds like the brother was in there trying to get something he couldn't pay for so he' sides with the guy for his own benefit. No respect for not only a black women but for women period. 5
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@madame48833 years agoIt’s all about respect. Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us. 🤍 Black American men seem to be extremely off. 7
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@cd14523 years agoHe is definitely not his dude. So crazy. 16
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@aminah7613 years agoThey never step up for us that’s why I don’t rock with them 11
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@fullonlove-22373 years agoI don't even know where to begin. I literally tried to ignore the bomb in me that Da Baby debacle ignited. (And I don't even keep up with celebs) Then I come to YouTube and see this. I unfortunately had my first experience of this "Audacity" and disdain, in my home with my ex fiance. But I have noticed and seen it with others. I'm sorry but for the people out there who wonder about our "attitudes" our independence our need to be strong and find issue with that, this is why. I am hopeful to get married to a beautiful black man and I'm trying hard to not group all black men in one bucket but seeing these type of things happen so often make it hard not to. ...16
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@cheryltwinkletoesrichardso80053 years agoQueen Eva I am so sorry to hear that, they DO NOT RESPECT US AT ALL, they think we are a JOKE but there are many women and men who don’t respect themselves and think it’s ok to disrespect others, thanks for the video 4
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@Mar1a_Vieira3 years agoI got chills listening to this. Despite the anger cutting through this screen today Ms Monroe, I just wanted to say THANK YOU.... for sharing this experience, imparting wisdom on how you dealt with it, and pointing out once again, the double standards of doing business with certain folk, not forgetting the foolishness that continues to plague the black community. This will stay with me for a very long time. 🙏🙏 ...2
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@TheDanj19753 years agoah man this hit home for me...Thanks for this vlog.
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@magasoun3 years agoI respect you for being so truthful, I'm hopping that THEY understand your language! 3
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@latonyajackson42953 years agoEva says," jigga what!" This was so truthful and on point. When we are conducting business there should be a level of reciprocated respect. 4
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@AMichelleKing3 years agoThank you for being so straight-forward and I’m sorry that this has happened to you. I can honestly say that my husband will stand up for Black women. Asé! 2
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@sheilag60853 years agoLove your video! It's on point and has been needed for a long time ( you presented it well) regarding the way black women are treated in today's society. A lot comes from what is displayed by the media, however, I'm joyful in the way you presented some of our issues. Thanks!!❤❤💋 ...
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@latashastarr22903 years agoWe can always count on you to take the high road every time! 👏👏👏👏 I’m so sorry you had to go through this Queen. The king is going to take care of it, don’t worry. As for the Dusty, the desperate cougar, (that couldn’t have been his mother) and the crooked salesman, Every dog has his day, AND SOME HAVE TWO!! Be blessed! ...4
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@marinara50003 years agoHi Eva. I appreciate your, "style and grace." I've got words for days... But my antisocial tirades aren't helping my personal growth, even if my point is correct. Thanks for your positive influence. 6
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@nranderson7783 years agoI’m so sorry to hear that this happened to you. On another note your skin is flawless and you look so young! 2
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@Inthegap233 years agoMiss Eva, let me first apologize to you for this man’s actions. Please understand that there are many Black men who will die for our sisters. Unfortunately there are those men and women who disrespect each other but love others that disrespect them. Like you I won’t use race but what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained. The title had me blown until I decided to listen and I get it, to all the sisters who have had negative experiences with us, don’t give up on us; trust me, we’re out here ...7
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@KJ-df9oz3 years agoI'm 36 and divested. It took me a while to see there's no hope your the "community" and if I had chose to wait on my black kang I might die alone. They have ZERO respect for us don't like us and wouldn't spit on us if we were on fire. Facts ...13
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@acewalker2 years agoAm I the only black man who loves my women? 3
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@nancymc93463 years agoEva you are so right. I pray that your situation turns in your favor. 🙏🏽
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@leatricegray37403 years agoEva , I am so glad that you are using your platform to bring awareness to everyone. I’m sorry That you had to go through this., However God puts us in situations so that we can grow and teach. And that is what you do so eloquently. ...1
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@debcomly24813 years agoYou are 100% Correct. I am glad you are going to follow through on making him pay for the mistake in a CLASSY way. Small Claims court would be my second resort. If you paid by Credit Card you can dispute the charge and go that route. I hate when people on the outside stay stupid things...Glad you were able to remain calm even though you probably wanted to slay him lol. All I can say is people can be so ignorant. Update us please!! ...3
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@Blkrain773 years agowhat?? he had NO REASON to even address you... lord help us 6
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@traceym826ts3 years agoThis is what these young ladies have been saying. But young black women get gaslit by not only black men but by black women as well. Imagine being in a relationship with that man. 🤦🏾♀️ 2
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@user-wg7qv7cm7u3 years agoI am so glad you vented here. So many issues to unpack here, yet you have been CLEAR! Thank you and bless you, Ms Eva Monroe.
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@wanderlustly3132 years ago"They FEEL like we don't respect them"! LMAO!! That's where I stopped, you can see where this is going. Many "adults" are allergic to accountability. 4
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@cilisimaditloo47003 years agoHave felt and lived this situation more times than I can remember. Not only from black men but also from some black women. You are absolutely right; we must do better! 3
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@daphethompson24243 years agoHello Eva👋, soo sorry 😞 this happened to you. But soo true as well. Soo many men just don't even have a clue 🙄. And that's even sadder 😥 😞. Thanks for sharing 👍. 1
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@SunShineSeLecT3 years agoMiss Madame Eva I would like to THANK YOU for sharing an educated understanding perspective here on YouTube that has many followers with similar educated perspectives 👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽💫🙌🏽 I'm not social media hip so I just try to see light in the 'random' video suggestions and when I comment I tend 2 regret it due to wth is this type of reactions. I want to be able to share, learn, and grow with folks on here but I thought it was impossible to find from folks that kinda look like me lol...thanks 2 u and all your followers 2 my new YouTube community 🤗 ...
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@mrsmurphy63713 years agoBeautiful Queen you don’t have to have your beat face and all the other extras that we do all the time . We love you as you are Queen . Speak your TRUTH and deliver your message. We adore you Eva Monroe . Thank you for sharing your transparency with US ! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 ...25
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@iamvirginiaweatherspoon22083 years agoI am so sorry that you had to deal with that. Sending love your way.❤️❤️
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@sherkendraburch23293 years agoI'm so sorry you had to experience this Eva! You did not deserve that! And you are absolutely right! We have to do better, we have to stand up for each other, 1
مقاطع الفيديو ذات الصلة على How Disrespected Do I Feel Today Do Black Men Respect Us At ALL:
“Like one who grabs a stray dog by the ears is someone who rushes into a quarrel not their own.” Proverbs 26:17
Short it means Mind your own business man! 28
Smh.
It takes a great amount of integrity, self-control, and confidence to not just walk the walk...but to share on YouTube and teach the talk.♥️ ... 10
1. Non-Black men (because they live vicariously through them)
3. Non black women ( because he idolizes #1.
4. Black women ( their last priority)
The informal culture towards Black women/people is a sign or disrespect as well. In Korean culture there are 7 levels of respect in how you talk to people but they speak to ANY Black person informally. We have no global respect because our men refuse to build a black nation and run it well and refuse to give even an iota of respect to their women. When they speak of black power they really want black male supremacy. I'm over the whole community and the foolishness.
That was ridiculous I can say you handled it well. But GIRL I got work to do cause I don’t know if I would have been that cool. I’m not
Married but he would of had it . Thanks for showing the right way in a difficult situation that’s like that ALL THE TIME. THANKS!
Sorry you were so disrespected!🌹 ... 15